Sunday, November 29, 2009

Elephants, Girl Scouts and Turkey

It has been an exciting ten days! On November 20th the other volunteers and I headed to Surin, a city on the border of Cambodia, for the annual Elephant Roundup. It was amazing! One of our former Thai language teachers and her friend came along with us to act as guides. We headed down Friday after school and arrived at about 10pm. We met another former teacher at Surin where we stayed in one of the dirtiest hotels I have ever seen in my life. The sheets and towels were stained, there was a used prophylactic in one room, holes in the ceilings and mysterious scuttling noises through out the night. Yet the next morning we headed to the "Elephant Show" and all the misery of the previous night melted away and seemed a fair price to pay for such an amazing experience.

Upon arriving at the stadium we found our seats and then wandered around the many vendors. A few of us went to the "back stage area" where we met some of the elephants! It was the highlight of my trip to Thailand thus far. I received a hug and a kiss from an elephant!

me getting an elephant hug!

Me getting kissed by an elephant


Elephant kiss evidence!

After that we headed back into the stadium to watch the elephants preform. They were amazing and very talented. They painted, played darts, danced, played a game of soccer and re-enacted epic battles. They even played tug-of -war with a few lucky people (one of whom was me!!!) It was a magical day and I loved every minute of it.

This past week I finally received my girl scout uniform! Its pretty funny...it is complete with all the trimmings: beret, green socks, scarf and epaulets.

this is how a scout salutes

Me with some other teachers...or should I say scouts!
It was hilarious to wear the uniform all day. They students really seemed to like it and kept telling me how pretty I looked which always made me laugh. I think it was just fun for them to see me in something that is so familiar to them . When I first put on the outfit my roommates yelled "Not fat!" so I think they were surprised that such a big scout uniform could look nice.

This past weekend I celebrated Thanksgiving with my fellow volunteers. We even managed to find a turkey. (OK my Field Director found the turkey, God bless her!) It really felt like a holiday, even if we did eat our feast on mats on the floor. We had turkey, mashed potatoes, salad, green bean casserole, french bread, stuffing (it was a creative effort) and cake. It was a very fun evening and being together really made it seem like the real thing though we celebrated a few days late. It is wonderful how close we all are and how much I value the time we spend together, they truly are my family here and it is them I feel most thankful for. This experience would not be the same with out their companionship and support.

Off to start another week of teaching and adventure, see you next post!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Another Update...Finally!

Again, I am sorry that it took me so long to put up a post! Internet works rarely where I live, I am lucky if I have it for an hour everyday. However, that is no excuse and I will do my best to write AT LEAST once a week.

I am settling into my routine and finally beginning to feel like a real teacher. I no longer feel so shocked at my surroundings or the things going on around me, though I have to say it does feel as though I have been in Thailand longer than a month and a half. I now think of my house and bedroom as home and am learning to handle my isolation from the other volunteers quite well. I don’t even think twice about bucket showers anymore and am getting the hang of doing my laundry mostly by hand. I love going to the local market with my new Thai friends to pick out dinner and see students and their families. I am usually driven around in the “school bus” which is a pick up truck with a cage around the back with two benches along the side, its pretty funny. I have been on a motorci (what they call a scooter) twice but they think I am too big to ride on the back…

I consider the other teachers at the school my family, everyone calls me Nong Sao (younger sister) and I am always cared for. Every day after school the teachers all mingle around the teacher housing cooking, eating, talking, singing and playing the Thai version of Bocce Ball, Pah Dong. The other evening we all went out to dinner and had a lovely time and laughed for hours. Last week they took me to Karaoke in a small hole in the wall bar in the local village, however I was unable to join in because I cannot read Thai! So instead they insisted I dance and taught me some more Thai dance steps. Every Thursday after the students leave all the teachers get together and have a sports day, we play soccer and more pah dong and basket ball, it is very fun and extremely entertaining, no one is particularly gifted in sports!

In the Thai schools there are certain days that you must wear very specific things. On Monday the teachers wear their teacher uniforms (the look almost like military uniforms) and the students wear a school uniform of white oxford shirts and blue shorts or skirts. On Tuesday everyone wears a pink shirt in honor of the King of Thailand. On Wednesday everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, wears a Thai Boy Scout or Girl Scout uniform. Here everyone must participate in the scouting program; it does not seem to be an option like in the U.S. On Thursday teachers wear shirts from whichever province they are from, I wear a Nakhon Phanom shirt, and Fridays people can choose what to wear.

It has been pretty interesting figuring it all out. Last week I was given a special pink polo shirt to wear on Tuesday’s and I was measured for my very own scout uniform for Wednesdays! I was measured in front of all the other teachers (the tailor would then yell out the measurements for his assistant to write down…very embarrassing!) and afterwards the other teachers said to me “Big Scout!”, but I had to laugh at it. I think it is funny that they want me to be included in the Scout Day, they felt badly that I was the only person not in uniform and they did not want me to feel left out. One less day to stare in my wardrobe wondering what to wear and it will be an instant Halloween costume for years to come, plus its custom made!

I am starting my third week of teaching and it is going slowly but well. I have had a few problems with fellow teachers, from witnessing some corporal punishment to them telling me that a class is “problematic because they are stupid.” Yet I love the students! I can tell they want to learn, they are just scared. I am trying to work on getting them comfortable speaking but it is like pulling teeth! Last week I did a listening activity in my upper level classes to ABBA’s “Dancing Queen” and it was a hit. I printed out the lyrics and then pulled a few words out so that students had to listen to fill in the blanks. They loved the song, and come into my office often to tell me “Teacher! Enjoy song Dancing Queen, sing?” I give them the song to listen to and they stand in the hallway with my Ipod and speaker and pull out the lyrics and sing along, it is awesome and hiliarious and always makes me think of family vacations where Dad would play ABBA all the time…

I am still getting used to many aspects of being a teacher here, it is so different than the US! Students line up every morning for the raising of the flag and teachers walk down the line checking student's fingernails and hair. If they think a student's hair is too long they cut the student's hair, no ifs, ands, or buts about it. The student is forced to allow the teacher to chop their hair, which usually comes out patchy and uneven and is obviously very embarrassing to the students. Teachers also use the students to do everything! Students carry teacher's lunches from the school building to the canteen, carry bags, and even do all the dishes and other cleaning that needs to be done. No janitors here, all students! I just keep reminding myself that it is just cultural differences...on the plus side students are very respectful, they always offer to help you, never talk back, and always greet you with some sign of respect.

This coming weeked of November 20th the other volunteers and I are headed to the town of Surin, boardering Cambodia, for the “Elephant Roundup”, and I am so excited! It will be an amazing once in a life time experience, trainers and their elephants come from all over to show off their skills, there is even a morning when the elephants serve breakfast. Elephants will also be painting pictures and t-shirts, and I am hoping I get the opportunity to ride one!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Real World Thailand

Sorry it has been so long, life has been moving at an incredible pace. Orientation finished this past Saturday and Sunday the 1st of November we all moved to our teaching sites. I am now a proud resident of Wang Ga Sae High School, and am working on settling in the best I can. I live with three other Thai teachers, two of whom are married, and they are very sweet and take very good care of me. My roommates already call me their sister and go out of their way to make me feel at home. We communicate through a variety of hand motions, smiles and limited words in both Thai and English, yet somehow it works! Every night at dinner we point to things and they teach me how to say it in Thai, and then I teach them in English.

I feel like a child all over again, I am re-learning how to do almost everything. Besides learning to communicate again I am learning to live with a squat toilet, my legs will be AMAZING after this year! All the toilets are bucket flush, toilet paper is non-existent and you must wear special shoes in the bathroom…I am going to crack this toilet culture and write a book about it so that no foreigner will ever feel this confused again, there is so much to know! I also am taking bucket showers which are surprisingly nice, even if it is cold; it wakes me up much more than coffee. I am learning to adapt to roosters cock-a-doodle-doing outside my window at all hours, though it is a hard noise to ignore! Cows are used as giant lawnmowers here, moving from place to place keeping the grass short, even the soccer fields!

I have been eating food that is very spicy but I am always told “No! Is not spicy!” so I am learning that that means “very spicy for foreigner, delicious for Thai”. I have tried some of the dishes they say “Oh this spicy” and feel like I have burns on my tongue! Needless to say, bland food is not really an option here. Last night I had my most delicious treat yet since arriving in Thailand however, sweet potatoes cooked in sugar and then served in coconut milk, aroi mak ma! (Very delicious)

My students are all very sweet but VERY shy, trying to get them to speak to me is difficult; it will take a lot of work to get them comfortable with me. Thai’s, as a people, are very worried about “losing face” so I have been trying to teach the kids that it is OK to make mistakes, mostly I do this by to trying to speak to them in Thai, which always makes them laugh and come out of their shells enough try and speak the English words I am trying to teach. The English the students know is very limited and they are being taught from text books that are far too advanced, so it’s hard for me to figure out where to start with them so I am starting with the basics for everyone, worst comes to worst it is review for some. I try to be confident and enthusiastic at every turn to help them but it is exhausting! I am usually in bed by 9pm here. OK I must head to my next class, I will try to write more regularly now that I am settled and have a set schedule. I promise pictures with the next post too!